"To compensate a little for the treachery and weakness of my memory, so extreme that it has happened to me more than once to pick up again, as recent and unknown to me, books which I had read carefully a few years before . . . I have adopted the habit for some time now of adding at the end of each book . . . the time I finished reading it and the judgment I have derived of it as a whole, so that this may represent to me at least the sense and general idea I had conceived of the author in reading it." (Montaigne, Book II, Essay 10 (publ. 1580))

Sunday, November 28, 2021

When Breath Becomes Air (Paul Kalanithi, 2016)

Book club selection (via PJ; session held (via Zoom) November 21, 2021).

A doctor who wishes to also be an author gets cancer, and writes about it.

Preface is written by a friend - talks a lot about Thomas Browne's "Religio Medici".  This struck me because a quote from the book is on frontispiece of my copy of Bach's Goldberg Variations.  Beautiful description of music (written well before Bach but still).  (Not yet inspired to read Browne's book, however.)

Useful recounting of things we've heard before - doctor as listener, guide.  The awfulness of cancer treatments.  What it felt like with the clock ticking, loudly.

Author in the early going was trying to figure out "the relationship between meaning, life, and death" - lots of discussion about this.  Thinking perhaps he would be the one to figure out the un-figure-out-able.

Husband-wife relationship - a little hard to read - husband never really gave up prioritizing career.  Then the illness intervened.

Dropping author names, similar to Amor Towles.  Ivan Ilych (Tolstoy) as a deep discussion of dying.

Some discussion of religion - the idea of original sin - which I think he described well - forget the theological strangeness, it speaks to something observed in human nature from the beginning.

Having a child in this kind of situation.

You can't read this without the main message being - don't screw up the days you have on trivia.  Not a new idea, but this is a good vessel to express it.

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